My Rock

This is the way I’ve been yearning to feel. 

This is the life I was destined to live

This is one of the reasons I regularly pray

And he is the cause for brightening up my days  

My Rock!

Prayers

It’s not what was said, it’s not how sad the apology sounded, it wasn’t the in depth explanation, it was how much the change in behavior was noticed, it was how the communication was clearer, it was the show of honest feelings, it was the laughter that found its way back, it was the smiles that became common again, it was the positive talks about the future but most of all, it was the prayers. 

#JoyOverEverything

Everything

This is Everything... not a one time thing, not a sometime thing, not a down time thing, not a part time thing, not a nighttime thing...

This feeling is EV-ER-Y-THING. 

#JoyOverEverything

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Do more, speak less. -LadyRawls 

Prepared

People will create their own storms and play the victim when it starts to rain, then they want sympathy when the lightening strikes. If you build the drama, the storm will definitely come.

Always be prepared so you won’t be surprised. 

I’m sayin 

#JoyOverEverthing 

Difference

Here’s the difference: 

I pray for him. 

You prey on him  

We are NOT the same. This is why I choose to pray for you also.

Signed,

Lady Rawls 🖤👑

#JoyOverEverything

Just happy to be here

Mornings begin with prayer & smiling 

Afternoons continue with laughter 

Nights conclude with meaningful conversation 

All day is filled with positive thoughts, visions, vibes & love.

The Quality time, is time well spent together, bonding, building & planning for the future. 

It’s the little things that make you FINALLY realize, you’re really happy to be where you are in your life as you continue to plan more for your future. Living pleasantly, peacefully, comfortably and proceeding with a true purpose.

Take nothing and no one for granted, allow NO-ONE to interrupt your joy. 

-Tina Rawls 

#JoyOverEverything 🖤👑

Rebuild

Being your significant others best friend can add so much stability to your relationship. Even if trust levels are low, you two can start to communicate on ways to have that strong trust in your relationship again. Where there is no trust, there is really no solid ground to build a solid relationship on. 

If one of you stumble make sure you’re strong enough to help the other one up, pick up the pieces, toss away the trash and rebuild for the future you both deserve. 

Nothing is perfect but you have to ask yourself, is this fight worth it. -Tina Rawls 

#JoyOverEverything 

Be a Diamond...

A thief doesn’t break into an empty home, thieves will keep trying to break into homes that hold valuables, jewels and priceless items.

So when a man shows interest, goes after or is dating a Lady who has the value of a Diamond and he himself is like a precious stone, there will ALWAYS be a sneaky bottom feeding thief looking for any little piece of pebble they can get and go running with it to prove that they too possess a piece of their jewels. 

What thieves don’t understand is, their evil actions don’t lessen the value of the Diamond but it continues to devalue and expose the character of the thief. 

I’m just sayin- Tina Rawls 

I still, He still & We still...

 There will be attempts made to disturb your peace, break your bond and try to destroy what you’ve been building. It takes not just verbal apologies but changed behavior to decide if it’s worth throwing away all that’s been invested or walk away and try again elsewhere. 

Bottom line is, everyone falls but it’s how they get up and what they change so they won’t fall again plus the effort shown to see if they are worth continuing to bond with. 

The Wicked can not compete with the Good, especially when there’s strength, love, honest and open communication, understanding, effort and prayer. 

I still He still and WE still remain 🖤👑 -Tina Rawls I’m just sayin’

Smile.

 I guess my confidence may have reminded some people of their insecurities. I’m ok with that and I’ll keep a smile on my face and in my heart. - Tina Rawls 

You’ve been warned.

Let me adjust my crown as I sit on my throne, legs crossed & unimpressed by these shows being put on. 

Some people are desperate and will do anything to get your attention, when they’re not up on your level their name isn’t even worth a mention. 

I have way too much to lose to get served with a subpoena, I’m not the baddest but if I react they’ll be calling 911 on TINA. 

Leave me alone & I mean this from my heart, I pray for you if need therapy but if you can’t finish this don’t start. 

I’m not sure if it’s love or attention that you desperately seek but try loving yourself first because I keep to myself like the candyman, so just don’t come for me. 

You’ve been warned.... 

I’m just sayin Lady Rawls💋

Clowns

The new form of entertainment is attention seekers, who I see as clowns.

You can watch the circus or be a part of the circus but as a person who has more important things to handle while you're still here on this earth, you're not going to waste your time and become part of the clowns entertainment. Let the clown perform, get the applause and the attention they need in their show. They may even get a little laugh out of it. Eventually, they will run out of ideas and shows to perform, then their sitcom will end. 

Understand this, the loudest one in the room isn't the one you need to worry about, it's the quiet one you should be aware of. That silence with undetected moves will say a whole lot more.... 

"She'll do anything necessary for him, he'll do anything necessary for her so don't let the necessary occur"

I'm just sayin- Love is Love... Tina Rawls

Queenly

Queens understand this....

when you are sitting up on your throne with your head held high, focused, handling your Queenly business, not looking for any trouble (nor are you running from it), not participating in drama and you're maintaining on your own, making power moves and carrying yourself as the woman you are. NEVER and I repeat, NEVER allow a messy person make you come down off of your throne and address them over some nonsense. 

You see, what sometimes happens is, the curiosity of a messy fan makes them wonder, “WHY her”, “HOW is she doing what she is doing”, instead of positively thinking, “WHY NOT her” and “I applaud or respect what she is doing”. (see the difference?)

A happy woman has no time to hate, a hating female has too much time on her hands to be messy. So instead of coming down off of your throne you may just have to tap the toe of your shoe down and squash a roach. Other than that, Queens keep building your legacies, maintaining & keep making memories. Positive vibes only. 

Love is love and Respect is given where it is deserved.... 

I'm just sayin'   Tina Rawls  

Mind your manners

It would be wise to think before you make a permanent reservation in your life for someone else, to make sure you weren’t just a temporary or occasional situation in theirs. 

If you see a person has moved on, they are happy and enjoying their life, suck it up buttercup & learn to enjoy yours, move ahead with your life. It makes no sense to bother, reach out to or harass people who aren’t bothering or thinking about you in the least way. 

The attention you seek may not the type of attention you will end up receiving, make sure you’re built for what you THINK you’re looking for. You can only back a panther into a corner for so long until they have had enough and decide to attack. 

Say it with me (Leeeeave People Alone) and MIND YOUR MANNERS! I’m just sayin. -Tina Rawls 

With so many reasons to be sad, so many reasons to feel down and so many reasons to give up, there is always that one reason to be appreciative & keep pushing. There are plenty of people who wished they had your problems. Always remember, your situation could be worse but it’s how you get yourself out of the situation, get over the situation and move on past that situation that matters. Keep your head up. 

 I’m just sayin 

Tina Rawls 

Little things

It’s the Phone calls, meals together, quiet time together, deep conversations, future planning, quality time, hugs, kisses, laughing together.... 

It’s the little things your loved one does that make you smile but it’s their effort to keep you happy that ultimately holds your heart. -Love being in Love

Tina Rawls 🖤 JoyOverEverything

Happiness

You have to be the one in control of your own happiness, if you’re looking for a man or woman to MAKE you happy, it gives them power to MAKE you unhappy. If you just happen to be with a person who automatically adds Joy along with happiness to your life and you in turn are adding the same energy  to their life, that is truly a blessing. 

Being Happy is a wonderful feeling but to have an added bonus of joy from the one you’re in love with....  well that’s just something you cherish.

-Love Being In Love

Tina Rawls 

No more

There will come that day when you say “No More”.

No more crying over a man or woman you’re dating who makes you feel less than the person you know you are. 

No more being judged for who you are. 

No more verbal abuse. 

No more being called out your name. 

No more feeling like you’re not good enough.

No more FAKING perfection in order to please the fake perfectionist. 

No more making excuses as to why you stay where you’re obviously not wanted. 

No more inconsistent emotions. 

No more looking to hear the words “I Love You” followed by the action of showing it. 

That No More will eventually lead someone to you who SHOWS you more than telling you what sounds good. Everyone is not the same so don’t take out your past experiences on the person you’re currently experiencing. 

You may not know what diamond you really have when you’re use to dealing with cubic zirconia. I Love being in Love

Tina Rawls

I’m just sayin 

Checkmate!

I understand his visions and I support his dreams, I stand by his side and I'll protect him BY ANY MEANS. I respect him as my man and I treat him as my King, I bring a sense of peace into his life, that's what you do when you're a Queen. I pray for him daily in a world where others only bring him stress, his health, his heart, his mind, his body and soul I pray will continually be blessed. We don't pretend to be the best but as a couple we have solidity and our relationship is not a show and tell, we respect our level of privacy. He's known me for years and my personality hasn't changed, the only thing we plan to switch up one day is how I spell my last name.  So when you see my glow just know HE is the cause, we are an imperfect couple who happen to accept each others flaws. - Love being in Love

So as far as relationships, when you are both happy, content, have respect for one another and mutual plans for your future, never let a negative outsider try to damage what you both have positively going on inside. 

I'm just sayin'

Tina....

Levels

There’s a certain level of Happiness, Stability, Peace and Security you will reach that won’t even allow the tiniest bit of negativity to disturb your inner peace. Once you know you’ve reached that level, you’ll start praying & wishing the best for those attempting to get a negative reaction out of you. You may not be able to control anyone else’s actions but you can control yours. There’s levels to life, know which one you are on.  I’m just sayin 

Isn’t it interesting, when your relationship is private but not a secret and you let it be known, here comes all of the “Your man/woman this, Your man/woman that & the famous “I heard he/she was screwing so and so” .... but before you let anything be known about your relationship, you heard nothing. 
Your man was being prepared to be come your man just as you were preparing to become his lady so you both can build and become a unit. Don’t let the bitter Bettys interfere in your relationship, nothing is perfect but you know in your heart if that man/woman is worth the battle. Love who you love and live happy. 
 People will always talk & want to tell your story, eventually they’ll have to have a conclusion to YOUR story so make sure it ends with HAPPILY EVER AFTER. 

I’m just sayin’

When you choose to bother a person or people who are not bothering nor thinking about you, understand one thing, YOU BROUGHT WHATEVER HAPPENS AFTERWARDS UPON YOURSELF.
Stay blessed.
💅🏽

You should learn something new daily, expand your knowledge, cleanse your body and avoid anything that is negative. We should  cherish this one life we are given and live in such a way that keeps us happy & healthy, no matter who tried to come into your personal space, don’t allow them to destroy your inner peace.

I’m just sayin.

The relationship has a different feel of love when trust and strength is blended with communication and comprehension. Being a team is the goal. I LOVE my team.

It feels good when the love is 50/50 but the feeling when you both are giving 100%. INCREDIBLE!

Happiness, laughter, communication, conversation..... verbal support, passionate kisses, gentle touch, mental inspiration.... my up when I’m down, he grins when I smile, my human motivation, if I go an inch he goes a mile..

I’m just sayin’

It’s the communication he has, the support he gives, the confidence in himself, the type of life he lives. 

The way he accepts who I am but there’s only one thing he plans to change, not my character, not my personality just the way I spell my last name. 

.... blessed. 

I’m just sayin 

A good place

Have you ever been with a person who keeps you in a good place mentally?

When a person can make you feel important just from a conversation. When his goals are your dreams but he is determined to make them a reality. When he makes you feel appreciated, genuinely cares for and values you. 

When he’s not trying to impress the streets, friends or peers & the fact that he doesn’t care what others think because he has nothing to prove.
Very secure but not keeping you a secret yet your relationship is respectfully private. 

When he has all of his own, you have all of your own but makes plans for you both to have more. 

His concern is how you and him will be lifelong teammates and build strong family ties. 

When he says and shows he’s ready to be that man you’ve been prepared for. *sighs*

Yeah, this is a good place and I like it here. 

Ms. Rawls

Progress

I put down the checkers and moved up to chess,
It's interesting how new moves, make you forget old stress,
I will continue to live in peace so that I can remain blessed,
With nothing to prove, I just do a lot more and say a lot less.
I'm built for hard times, stay ready to take on the next test,
I learn from my lessons, this way I will always progress.

I'm just sayin.......

One last try

Here comes that familiar feeling, you know, stomach full of butterflies, but I’ve heard all of this game before and fell in love with the sweetest lies. I’m not giving up on relationships, I’m going to give this ONE LAST try, if I drop tears it better be from happiness when I cry.

JP my Rock

Choose wisely

You don’t have to chase anyone, especially when they do not desire to be pursued. What you can do is slow down, get yourself back on track and allow who really WANTS you to catch up to you & show you that everyone is not alike. There are those who date with a real purpose, then there are those who just casually date for a temporary mate. Choose wisely.
I’m just sayin’

Great things take time

Some of us fall in love with a person deep in our hearts & with our minds while others lust a person or multiple persons, based on their sexual desires and temporary good feelings. Understand that it’s okay if you fell in love with a person who just wasn’t ready for the future you had set in your mind. If it ends just pick up the pieces, wish them the best and proceed on with life. Do not give up on love, I’m sure someone mature enough, will see your worth, value your presence and respects who you are, will eventually come into your life & complete the puzzle you’ve been patiently putting together alone. Don’t rush, great things take time. 

(Let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be, if it does not it was meant to be a lesson) 

I’m just sayin’ 

LadyRawls 

Took some time away

Good day, I had to take a little time away from writing so I could get myself in the right place mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Just know, I’m back, I’m better and I’ll be randomly  sharing my views and opinions here and there. Get ready 💋.