Isn’t it interesting, when your relationship is private but not a secret and you let it be known, here comes all of the “Your man/woman this, Your man/woman that & the famous “I heard he/she was screwing so and so” .... but before you let anything be known about your relationship, you heard nothing. 
Your man was being prepared to be come your man just as you were preparing to become his lady so you both can build and become a unit. Don’t let the bitter Bettys interfere in your relationship, nothing is perfect but you know in your heart if that man/woman is worth the battle. Love who you love and live happy. 
 People will always talk & want to tell your story, eventually they’ll have to have a conclusion to YOUR story so make sure it ends with HAPPILY EVER AFTER. 

I’m just sayin’