Queenly

Queens understand this....

when you are sitting up on your throne with your head held high, focused, handling your Queenly business, not looking for any trouble (nor are you running from it), not participating in drama and you're maintaining on your own, making power moves and carrying yourself as the woman you are. NEVER and I repeat, NEVER allow a messy person make you come down off of your throne and address them over some nonsense. 

You see, what sometimes happens is, the curiosity of a messy fan makes them wonder, “WHY her”, “HOW is she doing what she is doing”, instead of positively thinking, “WHY NOT her” and “I applaud or respect what she is doing”. (see the difference?)

A happy woman has no time to hate, a hating female has too much time on her hands to be messy. So instead of coming down off of your throne you may just have to tap the toe of your shoe down and squash a roach. Other than that, Queens keep building your legacies, maintaining & keep making memories. Positive vibes only. 

Love is love and Respect is given where it is deserved.... 

I'm just sayin'   Tina Rawls  

Mind your manners

It would be wise to think before you make a permanent reservation in your life for someone else, to make sure you weren’t just a temporary or occasional situation in theirs. 

If you see a person has moved on, they are happy and enjoying their life, suck it up buttercup & learn to enjoy yours, move ahead with your life. It makes no sense to bother, reach out to or harass people who aren’t bothering or thinking about you in the least way. 

The attention you seek may not the type of attention you will end up receiving, make sure you’re built for what you THINK you’re looking for. You can only back a panther into a corner for so long until they have had enough and decide to attack. 

Say it with me (Leeeeave People Alone) and MIND YOUR MANNERS! I’m just sayin. -Tina Rawls 

With so many reasons to be sad, so many reasons to feel down and so many reasons to give up, there is always that one reason to be appreciative & keep pushing. There are plenty of people who wished they had your problems. Always remember, your situation could be worse but it’s how you get yourself out of the situation, get over the situation and move on past that situation that matters. Keep your head up. 

 I’m just sayin 

Tina Rawls 

Little things

It’s the Phone calls, meals together, quiet time together, deep conversations, future planning, quality time, hugs, kisses, laughing together.... 

It’s the little things your loved one does that make you smile but it’s their effort to keep you happy that ultimately holds your heart. -Love being in Love

Tina Rawls 🖤 JoyOverEverything

Happiness

You have to be the one in control of your own happiness, if you’re looking for a man or woman to MAKE you happy, it gives them power to MAKE you unhappy. If you just happen to be with a person who automatically adds Joy along with happiness to your life and you in turn are adding the same energy  to their life, that is truly a blessing. 

Being Happy is a wonderful feeling but to have an added bonus of joy from the one you’re in love with....  well that’s just something you cherish.

-Love Being In Love

Tina Rawls 

No more

There will come that day when you say “No More”.

No more crying over a man or woman you’re dating who makes you feel less than the person you know you are. 

No more being judged for who you are. 

No more verbal abuse. 

No more being called out your name. 

No more feeling like you’re not good enough.

No more FAKING perfection in order to please the fake perfectionist. 

No more making excuses as to why you stay where you’re obviously not wanted. 

No more inconsistent emotions. 

No more looking to hear the words “I Love You” followed by the action of showing it. 

That No More will eventually lead someone to you who SHOWS you more than telling you what sounds good. Everyone is not the same so don’t take out your past experiences on the person you’re currently experiencing. 

You may not know what diamond you really have when you’re use to dealing with cubic zirconia. I Love being in Love

Tina Rawls

I’m just sayin